This page is for those unfamiliar with the whole chub/chasing scene. Here are some common questions I usually get. If you have more, e-mail them to me and I'll add it to the list.

1. What is a Chub?

1. Bear - Anyone with a lot of body hair. A hairy big man is a Big Bear.
2. Gainer - Anyone that wants to get fatter by being overfed.
3. Lineman - A guy that is heavy, possibly with a gut, but who has more muscle than fat.
4. Chub - Any fat man, smooth or hairy, that is naturally heavy-set.

1. Under 200 pounds: more of a chaser than a chub. Will never pass for a big man.
2. 200-250: Bearish, husky, but not necessarily a chub. This weight class is neither a chaser nor really a chub. I recommend either gaining more or losing some if you want to fit into this scene.
3. 250-300: This is the light-weight chubby. He has a nice soft skin and a decent waist. Some chasers (20%?) find this weight attractive. You are heavy-set, but it does not keep you from having fun.
4. 300-400: This is the mid-weight chubby. I typically am attractive to men in this range. They have wider waists, softer breasts, and bigger belly baskets. 50% of chasers find this size the best. They have plenty of flesh that us chasers love and can still have a lot of fun, though they can be restricted from some seats and rides along the way.
5. 400+: This is the heavyweight chubby. I would say that 30% of the chasing scene think that the bigger the man is the better. Most chasers just love to rub up against them, feel their softness, and enjoy their hugeness.

2. What is a Chaser?

1. Cubs: They like their bears big.
2. Encourager: They like to make their big men bigger.
3. Wolf: A guy that dates skinny men, but likes to pray on big men with low self-esteem from time to time. Watch out for these.
4. Chaser: A guy who finds fat on a man a big turn-on and would sleep with no other kind.

3. What's the best way to make a splash in this chub/chasing scene?

I must admit that the Internet has made many chubs and chasers very happy. Now they don't have to feel alone anymore. There are a lot of us out there, and the numbers keep growing.

The first step on line is to find the right rooms: for AOL its BigBellyM4M and for IRC is #gaychub (EFFnet) or #gaychubs_n_chasers (DALnet) depending on which IRC channel you log onto.

Step two is to chat; talk to the people into the room. The best opening line is to just tell them your stats: age, height, weight, location, sexual likes, etc.

Step three would be getting a gif (computer image) of yourself. Nothing gets people's attention more than seeing who you are. The more explicit the better. I found that nude gifs could do wonders for a person's sex life. Show a little and get a lot in return.

Step four is to place a chub/chasing ad in either the gay personal area on AOL, or at Chubnet and GainrWeb on line, or in Bulk Male the magazine for big men and those that love them.

Step five would be going to a G&M or other conventions. It is a place to meet big men and chasers live.

Lastly, be patient. It will happen. The more open you are to the scene, the more you will be rewarded.

 

4. What do chasers like sexually that most big men don't know?

I typically like a big man that can smother me and I don't mean take his hands and strangle me. I mean roll your belly over his body. Get on top of him and feed him your breasts. Don't be afraid to top for a 69 once in a while. It's risky and that just excites him more. Sit on his chest; let him feel your presence. Press up against him constantly. These are things that drive me wild.

 

5. What do big men like sexually that most chasers don't know?

I find that most big men like to be submissive and bottoms. Those not knowledgeable always assume that the bigger man is the top. Those bigger men that do top tend to prefer you to sit on it. Most big man like the idea of someone small dominating someone so large. Try not to worship their fat too much. That turns off most big men. If you are going to worship them, celebrate their minds and personalities as well. And don't just treat them as one-night stands.

 

6. Why do Chasers chase?

1. Father Figure - fat men are portrayed as good father's on TV and movies.
2. Renaissance - fat on a man looks healthier than skin and bones.
3. Obsession - size become a trophy like a hunter.
4. Abbott & Costello - Opposites attract.
5. Vanity - A big man makes a not so big man feel skinnier.
6. Body Heat - big men put off a lot of body heat that some chasers are drawn too like moths to a flame.
7. Stereotype - big men are generally more friendly, loving, and caring.
8. Teddy Bear - who doesn't love a big huggable body.
9. Body Guard - smaller men feel safer in their presence.

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Thanks for visiting my page. If you have any chub/chasing questions not answered in this FAQ, please e-mail them to me and I'll answer them if I can.